We had a busy November in our office! Which means we have a lot of clients going on their first dates. Before you head out for your date, we've compiled some more "dating do's" for you:
- Be interested. Remember to ask questions and converse back and forth with your date. When your date tells you what they like to do for fun, what book they just read, what music they listen to or what TV shows the love, pay attention. You never know, something they say might spark something to do for your 2nd date!
- Don’t String Them Along. If you’re not interested in seeing the person again, it’s good to be honest. Taking their number when you know you won’t follow up because you’re too scared to say “no” is hurtful and selfish. Let them down gently if you’re not interested and wish them best of luck.
- Attraction is Subjective. If you’re attracted to the person, date them. Who cares if your friend/brother/co-worker/roommate doesn’t agree with you? Their approval doesn’t matter.
- Stay Positive. With each and every date, you learn something more about yourself and the type of person you want to be with. The fairy tale saying is true, “You have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince.” Remember, dating is a numbers game. When a date goes bad, doesn’t mean the next one will.