Is there just some big computer that spits out matches?
Of course not! Everything we do is personalized-from the first time we meet you, to the matches that we select for you. Matchmaking is not a science; it’s a process of getting to know you and what you’re looking for and using that information—and our instincts—to select the people who are the best match for you.
How do the dates work?
Once we’ve selected a match for you, we’ll call you to tell you all about the person and why we think you will make a great match. Confidentiality is key! Only first names are provided and we never reveal a match’s address or phone number. We’ll provide you with plenty of details about your match that will help jump start conversation once you meet! Everything we’ve learned about you—as well as the feedback you’ve provided throughout your membership –plays a role in the matching process.
Where do I meet my date?
All you have to do is show up at the restaurant we’ve scheduled the date at and have fun—all the details are taken care of by us prior to the date. Reservations are made for you and the restaurant knows to provide top-notch service, while remaining discreet. If you aren’t able to fit lunch into your busy schedule, we can arrange to have you meet for a drink after work. The timing and location of the date is always selected with both clients’ convenience in mind.
What do I do when I want to see my date again?
Exchange business cards or contact information and start to make plans to see each other again! Part of the IJL process is giving feedback after each of your dates, so you would share with us what you liked about your date the next morning when you call to provide feedback. We’re great at what we do—creating matches for fun first dates. The second date (...and third and fourth…) is all in your hands!
What if there was no connection on the date?
No stress –after all, it’s just lunch! Our dates are set up to be a no-pressure situation; lunch in the afternoon or a drink after work. The feedback you provide after your date will help to fine tune your next match—and no feedback is “bad” feedback. Your comments and overall impression of the match can only help us be more precise with your next date!
