Women know within the first few minutes of interacting with you whether or not you’re a confident man. It’s all about your voice tone and body language. If you’re not sure whether you project this “sexy beast” persona, chances are you don’t. So, what’s a guy to do? These four basic skills will instantly make you irresistible:
Lesson One: Learn how to hold eye contact for longer than she does. Don’t gawk, cold stare, or use darting eye glances. Just gently hold her gaze until she looks away. Avoiding eye contact reeks of emotional insecurity.
Lesson Two: Women first look at your attire and second at how you hold yourself. Keep your body posture in a strong stance, hold your head up…hold yourself like you’re the most powerful person you’ve ever known. Carry yourself like a manly man and women will have a positive subconscious and then conscious, reaction to you.
Lesson Three: Slow down. Confident people are not in a hurry. Fidgeting or nervous behavior shows insecurity and self-consciousness. Use slow, calculated gestures and movements (think John Wayne or James Bond). This transmits a feeling of “I’m comfortable in my own skin,” and makes a huge impact on women.
Lesson Four: Lower your voice. A wobbly or high-pitched voice is a big turn-off for women since it relays low self-esteem. Learn how to speak from the chest and stomach and not from the throat. If you talk too fast and too much when you get nervous, take a deep breath, let it out slowly and relax. Speak slower, articulate your words, pause more…it creates anticipation, which is sexy.
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